Rapport
Sometimes a conversation begins with a little hesitation. Then you discover something in common, share a laugh, or feel that the other person is really listening. You begin to relax. That comfortable connection has a name: rapport.
Part of speech: Noun (uncountable)
Pronunciation: ruh-PORE
American IPA: /rəˈpɔr/
The stress falls on the second syllable, and the final t is silent.
Meaning: A friendly connection between people, marked by understanding and ease.
Rapport is useful in friendships, at work, and when meeting someone new. You might build rapport with a colleague, establish rapport with a client, or feel an immediate rapport with someone you have just met.
Everyday examples
“We had an immediate rapport and talked for an hour.”
“It took a few meetings to build rapport with my new colleagues.”
“Asking about her interests helped me establish rapport with her.”
Where does it come from?
English borrowed rapport from French. It is related to rapporter, meaning “to bring back” or “to report.”
Why I love this word
Rapport names something that matters in communication: the connection between the people speaking. Pronunciation and vocabulary help us express ourselves, but listening, curiosity, and warmth help us connect.
You don’t have to speak perfect English to build rapport. You can begin with a thoughtful question—and take an interest in the answer.
What helps you feel at ease when talking with someone new?
